I knew I wasn’t just spewing anything out of my bum.

The middle child: has less of a clear-cut role in the family; instead, she often makes a place for herself outside the family, creating a network of close friends, venturing away from the family physically, and breaking the mold intellectually as well.

I would agree that I’ve had a gray area of sorts when it comes to my position in the family. I’ve had and gotten to be a little of everything, which can be both awesome and awful. My family IS more than biological, as I have reached out for an understanding and connection with those who share perspectives.

Female middle child: She is more adaptable than first or last. The middle child grew up with both older and younger, and can relate to all. She has the most potential for making a good match with anyone. And yes, middleborns are often neglected—statistically, they receive 12 percent less attention from their parents than their siblings. But the gender of her siblings is important. Britney Spears has an older brother and a younger sister. The important thing for her is her opposite sex sibling. She would be best with an older brother who has a younger sister or two younger sisters.

I’ve realized this for myself and would mostly agree with the analysis. I find myself more inclined to want to interact with a first born, who may understand concepts such as responsibility, leadership, and accountability, amongst other things.

—» Off to search for my first born male..
Geez, I sound like I’m on a mission to offer a sacrifice, LOL!